Just a little reminder that today isn't a day that was instituted for vacation, hot dogs, and a day off from school. Honestly, growing up that's all it was to me. A day on the calendar that, for some reason, meant no school. It was a day that meant a break - and later on in life, friends, bbq's, corn on the cob, parks, chips, etc. But now I can't help but think of what today means for those in military families who have lost a husband or wife; son or daughter; brother or sister; dad or mum; or aunt or uncle. Or for that matter, those not even related to them. Those who have lost a dear friend, boyfriend, girlfriend, or fiancé.
Today isn't a sunny day in the park for them. Today is a reminder of loss, and perhaps to some extent, a matter of pride. Pride in their loved ones for their selflessness and sacrifice. Pride in their skill sets and ability. Pride in their heart and character. It's pretty easy for those of us who have no personal connection or interest in military affairs to forget about the real reason we commemorate this day. And even more so, for the very real pain and loss that it brings. My heart can't help but hurt for military families. They go through so much more than we realize. To be really real, I once dated a soldier (though he had yet to endure basic training at the time). Though it was only for 3 months, I was quite proud to be his girl; to closely support someone who would be supporting so many. And while we're both in different places in life now - he married with a kid on the way, and me in love with wherever this place is that God has me - it would still hurt my heart deeply if something were to happen to him. And that's coming from an ex. An ex who was the one who called it off. Just think of those still deeply rooted to the ones who serve(d). I'm humbled to think of all of the men and women who have taken such strides of selflessness for people they will never meet, while I sit at home, unwilling to sacrifice so many aspects of my comfort for those that I know and love. And while that selflessness is something that God has been at work on in me for the past year, and all glory goes to Him for the growth in that area of my life, I still can't help but feel convicted by looking at those who serve not only their country, but as role models of selflessness. "There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends." John 15:13
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